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Coaching Commentary #39: The Confidence Factor

[#CoachTom] Confidence is a vital attribute for employees in the workplace. When employees have confidence in themselves and their abilities, they are more likely to take initiative, tackle challenges with resilience, and contribute to the organization’s success.

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Imagine a situation wherein you have all the comforts a person can ask in a state-of-the-art, fully digitally connected home with all the appliances activated with a flick from a remote. And then there’s a black-out. Nice. Just as the absence of electricity reduced the ultra-modern apartment to a thing we better not talk about, absence of self-confidence can also do something like this to a seemingly healthy person.

Without confidence you’ll probably never take off. Do you feel like in a similar situation? Do you feel that even after having all the qualities and skills, you are somehow – not as successful? The coaching question for you to reflect upon – Is it about confidence and the lack thereof?

Here are 5 Actionable Steps to Boost Your Confidence and Conquer the World

  • Recognize your unique worth: Remember that you are one in a million, and nature has chosen you to be here for a purpose. Embrace your uniqueness and the gifts you possess. Realizing your worth will help you build confidence and enable you to live up to your potential.

Action: Take a few moments each day to remind yourself of your strengths and positive qualities. Write them down and refer to the list when you need a confidence boost.

  • Make a decision to be confident: Don’t wait for a miracle or external validation to feel confident. Make a conscious decision to be self-assured and take control of your life.

Action: Write down your commitment to be more confident and put it somewhere you can see it every day. This will help reinforce your decision and keep you focused on your goal.

  • Develop a focused mindset: When you’re focused on a purpose, your mind becomes more powerful, and your body language reflects that. A focused mindset leads to solid steps, a firm handshake, and a direct gaze.

Action: Set clear goals for yourself and create a plan to achieve them. Break your goals down into smaller, manageable steps and celebrate your progress along the way.

  • Practice public speaking: Public speaking can be an excellent way to build confidence. Start by practicing in front of a mirror or with a small group of friends or family.

Action: Find opportunities to speak in public, such as joining a local Toastmasters club or offering to give a presentation at work. The more you practice, the more confident you’ll become.

  • Master your subject matter: Knowledge is power, and the more you know about a topic, the more confident you’ll feel discussing it. Invest time in learning and expanding your knowledge base.

Action: Dedicate time each week to learning something new or deepening your understanding of a subject that interests you. This can be through reading, attending workshops, or taking online courses.

By following these actionable steps, you’ll build the confidence you need to conquer your fears and achieve your goals. Remember, confidence is a skill that can be developed and improved over time. Start today, and watch your life transform as you become a more self-assured, unstoppable version of yourself.

Coach Tom is an Official Member of the Forbes Coaches Council (2023). Check out the various articles by #CoachTom on AI+Web3, leadership, organization transformation, strategy. Connect with him and stay updated on his exciting projects at: