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Blog #42: Coaching & Self-Determination – The Purpose-Driven Pathway

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[#CoachTom] In the world of coaching, one of the foundational principles we emphasize is the power of purpose. This sentiment is encompassed in the ‘P’ of PEARLS, where ‘Purpose’ stands as the linchpin to guiding an individual in their choices and actions.

Are you the kind of individual always striving for the future, or perhaps, you’re more reserved, always awaiting the next mishap? If you resonate with either, it’s time to delve deep into the essence of self-determination. It’s about taking ownership of our missteps and the chapters of unhappiness in our narrative. More importantly, it’s about embracing a proactive mindset to shape our destiny.

At the core of self-determination is an intrinsic strength: self-awareness. By turning inward, by introspecting, we can shine a light on the fears and uncertainties that have long lurked in the shadows of our mind. Only by understanding these roadblocks can we truly set out on the journey of reshaping our thoughts towards a positive trajectory.

The discovery of these barriers is just the beginning. Knowledge is powerful, but action breathes life into change. Identifying impediments paves the way for strategies to overcome them, propelling you towards genuine self-determination. The cornerstone here is genuine self-awareness. It provides clarity, allowing one to chart the best way forward.

Retraining your mind to harbor positive thought patterns is no small feat. It requires dedication, introspection, and above all, understanding oneself. A potent tool to foster this mindset of self-determination is self-exploration. Dive deep, unearth your internal secrets, and pinpoint the transformative actions you need to take. Decision and commitment then become your allies.

Bear in mind, nobody knows you better than yourself. The transformation from negative to positive thinking rests squarely on your shoulders. Yet, having a roadmap helps. Drafting your aspirations, your goals, not just mentally, but penning them down, serves as a potent reminder and motivator. It’s a tangible testament to your commitment to change. With every ticked-off goal, you are not just marking a task but celebrating your journey towards heightened self-awareness and robust determination.

While the initial push must come from within, external stimuli play a crucial role in sustaining and augmenting this drive. There’s a plethora of resources, both offline and online, ranging from insightful articles to self-help guides, designed to guide you through this journey. Personally, I’ve always found solace in music. The right tunes can uplift, inspire, and act as a catalyst in rejuvenating one’s spirit.

Change is often misconstrued as mere deviation. However, in the realm of self-determination, change is evolution. It’s a metamorphosis that nurtures creativity, births novel ideas, and ultimately bolsters your resolve to be self-determined. Resources are aplenty; all it requires is the will to seek and the courage to apply.

Here is a tip for both coaches and coachees: Self-determination is more than just a state of mind; it’s a pilgrimage towards peace and tranquility. The motivation is about embracing change for the better; with coach and coachee working in a state of flow to seek growth – and letting the ‘Purpose’ of the PEARLS principle guide your path. As you set forth on this odyssey, remember that every step can be a testament to your strength and commitment to a life of purpose and unwavering resolve – a pathway to a better version of self.

Coach Tom is an Official Member of the Forbes Coaches Council (2023). Check out the various articles by #CoachTom on AI+Web3, leadership, organization transformation, strategy. Connect with him and stay updated on his exciting projects at: